Sometimes I forget that you guys don’t live inside my head and that in order for you to know something I have to actually write it here. My fear of redundancy is what often keeps me silent. But when it turns out that half of the people on my own Facebook don’t even know that I have moved back to Vancouver (and still think I’m in Montreal) it occurs to me that I might have been remiss about updating people on even the biggest details of my life. What can I say, I’m silent out of kindness. I worry about boring you. Nonetheless here is a brief update on the things that matter (or don’t, that’s really your call to make):
I have been dating up a bit of a storm (Spoiler Alert: there have been approx. 10 “somethings” since I last updated the blog with a post about dating). So why haven’t I updated the blog?
Because I’m writing a book (well, a collection of short stories really) and most of those stories are going in it.
I’m going to be honest; I’m really hoping you’ll want to buy it and read it. The hope is that it will be published in e-book format (and/or print on demand) in the next few months. Obviously, I will keep you lovelies posted.
I’m back in Vancouver and hate/loving it.
I’ve lost 50lbs. (don’t get too excited, I got super fat in grad school so I still have a really long way to go but you can click here for a quick glimpse of the progress). I’ve also decided to start blogging more about what I’m doing at the gym, eating at home, and the overall weight loss journey. Obviously, do not feel compelled to read about it, but my friend suggested it might be of interest to some people and given how much time I’ve spent combing the internet for tips on fitness, healthy recipes, and weight loss, I figure she might be right. And, if those topics aren’t of interest to you then just skip on through to the other articles (or the book! yay a book!). Also, if you are interested in this stuff, definitely consider following me on Instagram as I tend to post more there than anywhere else at the moment.
Speaking of Instagram AND book news…I’ve started posting pics using the hashtag #PossibleBookTitle (sorry I can’t make this link clickable here but if you type it in under search hashtags on Instagram you’ll find it easily). This is legitimately me brainstorming and thinking through possible ideas for titling the upcoming book so if you like being a part of things, feel free to weigh in on your favourite choice(s).
Also, I’ve started using Tumblr a lot more so if that’s your jam, head on over and follow me on there. I admit, I’m definitely a multi-poster (meaning that if I’ve been known to post a joke on Twitter, take a screenshot and post it on Instagram and Tumblr). But the truth is, while hopefully there are very few of you who are irritated by this, there are often very different audiences who follow on each site. An example of this being when I tweeted the following:
Your attraction to me is not a compliment. You wanting to fuck me is not a compliment. I am far greater than your boner will ever know.
— Victoria Nachos (@SSDated) November 10, 2014
Not to be a total egomaniacal dick, but I thought it was pretty cool. Yet, it only got like 9 favs and 2 RTs. So, I took a screenshot and posted it on Instagram and then shared it on Tumblr (where it is now, by FAR, the most shared thing I’ve ever posted…at last check with 8000+ notes). In turn, that bumped up the attention of the tweet a little but still nothing by comparison. So why am I telling you this? Basically so that if you are one of the people who gets irritated by multi-posting, I’m sorry but hopefully now you can understand a bit about why I do it (and thus hate that I do it just a tiny bit less)
I am very aware that as I’ve been working on the book, the blog has become a little lacklustre, having posts that are either few and far between or just glimpses of writing exercises. While I can’t make any promises, the book and fitness have to come before anything else, I will definitely be trying to post more in the coming weeks (not just fitness/food stuff but also sex and dating, and other exciting stuff).
Finally, as always, feel free to email me your dating questions and quandries, and I will be happy to dispense any advice I can.
All my love,
aka The Cheesecake Queen
aka That girl crying in the squat rack
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